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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr
· 4 January, 2019 at 2:12 am
Fear is fundamental to this. For example, I may not know the way to get somewhere, then I will start struggling in my thinking. Instead of asking any person I see around me, that person may be from there or knows the way better than I do. How will I get help if I don’t ask? In my thought I will be like: I don’t want to disurb anybody, fear comes, stress comes and other negative thoughts. finally I will end up to be discribed as a Frightened withdrawer. This is a fragmenting role.
Here is the Constructive role: For example, if I approach a person and ask him if he could know the way to get me to the post office. The person may say no, but, he may lead me to the right person who is familiar with that place.
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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 4 January, 2019 at 2:12 am
Fear is fundamental to this. For example, I may not know the way to get somewhere, then I will start struggling in my thinking. Instead of asking any person I see around me, that person may be from there or knows the way better than I do. How will I get help if I don’t ask? In my thought I will be like: I don’t want to disurb anybody, fear comes, stress comes and other negative thoughts. finally I will end up to be discribed as a Frightened withdrawer. This is a fragmenting role.
Here is the Constructive role: For example, if I approach a person and ask him if he could know the way to get me to the post office. The person may say no, but, he may lead me to the right person who is familiar with that place.