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lenanpatricia2@gmail.com · 24 November, 2020 at 1:08 am

With the COVID situation this year, I have found myself more protective whilst in the public, especially at the supermarket. I haven't felt safe, not only because of the situation, but because of others behaviours and beliefs around the virus. Behind my mask and maintaining a distance between others, has expanded my psychologica self's space as well

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lenanpatricia2@gmail.com · 6 November, 2020 at 4:58 am

Being a stepmother for 25 years, it can be challenging to remain in the I and thou relationship with my step children. My husband and his kids are the cubes and my children and I are the round fluffy balls. It is interesting to see the children’s dynamics change as they grow up, sometimes in the I and Thou, sometimes in the I and It. They are all very different. We are all learning to be in the I and Thou

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lenanpatricia2@gmail.com · 5 November, 2020 at 8:13 am

It’s challenging to be 100%
It is something I consciously aspire to, and have in my value system, however I end up feeling angry when I am the responsible one. I also feel superior at times, and I struggle with coming from love and non judgement

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hu.vickie@gmail.com · 19 October, 2020 at 2:57 am

can you describe more practically about how to help client cut through their words? thanks

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hu.vickie@gmail.com · 25 September, 2020 at 3:46 am

Hey carols, i finished the starter course but it shows “Error! You cannot finish this course. Please contact your administrator for more information.” on my screen so please let me know what i can do the next. thanks

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Sia Pickersgill · 11 September, 2020 at 4:48 am

Im a little confused. Is every memory suppose to be a ‘happy’ memory, or just a memory? And if there’s no feelings outside of ‘happiness’ for example if one was remembering playing outside with a sibling, and no other message of ‘you can do this’ , does that matter?

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marilyn.waddington@gmail.com · 7 September, 2020 at 8:44 am

thinking that someone is rejecting me when really it's not about me ?

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jorobertson007@gmail.com · 7 September, 2020 at 4:20 am

I really like the way it encourages people to think and work in silence – it gives the brain time to process without the need for words.

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jorobertson007@gmail.com · 7 September, 2020 at 3:48 am

Potentially this may assist me to develop a healthy relationship with my son in law, who never responds to my efforts in a way that makes sense to me.

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jorobertson007@gmail.com · 7 September, 2020 at 3:41 am

At I reflect on the possibility that at some stages of my life I have taken on the responsibility of other family members when I probably should have just offered support to help them get through things on their own.

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hu.vickie@gmail.com · 4 August, 2020 at 3:08 pm

i think i have similar cases with people of controlled mother-figure, i will just become like Amber most of time to feel angry and keep keep emotional distance with them.

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hu.vickie@gmail.com · 4 August, 2020 at 12:21 pm

i think the first question can be all related. If we don’t not realize what happens to our thoughts and be aware of what it is from that we might not be able to differentiate well and aware of one self feeling, other’s feeling and the environment. Instead of that, ppl might stuck in their belief and always feel like a victim or complainer .

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hu.vickie@gmail.com · 4 August, 2020 at 12:19 pm

i think they are all related to each other. The cognitive bias might cause some negative emotions, reaction or even some unpleasant physical feelings. if we don’t not realize that we might not be able to differentiate well and aware of one self feeling, other’s feeling and the environment. Instead of that, ppl might stuck in their belief and always feel like a victim or complainer .

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lenanpatricia2@gmail.com · 20 July, 2020 at 11:20 pm

Thanks for getting back to me, I was able to do the test

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lenanpatricia2@gmail.com · 19 July, 2020 at 3:12 am

Hi Melanie, I am unable to open the technique test questions

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beck.szwede@gmail.com · 18 July, 2020 at 4:09 am

I really liked this! I did notice towards the end when I was on the stage / circle, I clicked ‘back’ as I wanted to re-read and instruction but then wasn’t able to move forward again. I.e. the ‘continue/help button was missing.

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    melanie@relationship.capital · 28 July, 2020 at 12:44 am

    Thank you, Beck for bringing this to our attention. I will let our Tech man know to sort it out.

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weisstj74@gmail.com · 15 June, 2020 at 9:06 am

I celebrate my goals and achievements, Not always do I get it right but i try to remember when i do to celebrate it. I enjoy my volunteer work with clients and the satisfaction in knowing that i have helped someone, even if all i did was to just be present with them and just listen.

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weisstj74@gmail.com · 15 June, 2020 at 8:49 am

I believe in life you have to take in that around you, you need to stop, enjoy the sounds, the smells and be in th moment. I try to always be the pilgrim, to enjoy the moment not just rush through it. Being on my couch, cuddling up with my children, listening to their laughter and just being with them..this is my best place to be a pilgrim.

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davlin@iinet.net.au · 2 June, 2020 at 5:06 am

As a christian, eternal hope and being a child of God makes me celebrate and feel for the lost and broken hearts and souls. Jesus provides the self improvement and communal identity

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siapickersgill@gmail.com · 25 May, 2020 at 11:35 pm

I have learnt to look at myself from others perspectives and therefore am more aware of my behaviour. I could attempt to get clients to view how their actions/behaviour/attitudes may be reflected upon and contributing to unhappy/unpleasant situations. I would need to try to think about different scenarios and how they would/could play out

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siapickersgill@gmail.com · 25 May, 2020 at 11:30 pm

I’m spending far too much time in the fragmented role and i really need to change that

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siapickersgill@gmail.com · 24 May, 2020 at 11:57 pm

It seems that Lisa is complaining about the lack of help, yet she’s hovering over the work not wanting to let go of control. Maybe she isnt comfortable or confident that her staff/team can do the job, so she’s taking the entire workload on

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cheryl_rcy@hotmail.com · 17 May, 2020 at 6:38 am

The good memories I had throughout my life comes to me so much easier than expected. But, most importantly, as I was reminiscing the memories, it felt like time stopped at this point in time while I reflect on those happy moments. It’s truly enjoyable.

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cheryl_rcy@hotmail.com · 17 May, 2020 at 3:49 am

I wanted to appear to others, and even to myself, that "as I aspire to become a psychologist who help others in times of need, I have to be resilient and remain strong for others to feel safe and secure in (emotionally) relying on me." Though I am as much of a human as others, I too experience ups and down in life. As such, I find myself often hide in a place where no one could find me, feeling upset and vulnerable, on top of that, lonely, yet feel guilty for experiencing these negative emotions.

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suzannekingpsych@gmail.com · 16 May, 2020 at 6:42 am

I can celebrate my clients when they show courage and insight. I feel it is a privilege to be a witness to the emotions of others and to be present in that space with them. By exploring my own feelings and understanding myself I can participate more fully in life and be truly present with others.

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nsocino@gmail.com · 14 May, 2020 at 9:22 pm

buenas tardes no he podido comenzar el curso en virtud que no lo encuentro traducido al español

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suzannekingpsych@gmail.com · 14 May, 2020 at 11:50 am

I know I have a prejudice that appears when I automatically judge people's behaviour towards their children eg when I witness episodes someone yelling at their children in public, ignoring them when they speak or handling them roughly.

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suzannekingpsych@gmail.com · 14 May, 2020 at 11:35 am

I have just last week become a grandmother for the first time and I believe I experience being a pilgrim when I hold him and become immersed in his sounds, movements and breath. I notice so much detail and feel drawn in to this new experience. It has certainly changed me!

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crisorlandog@gmail.com · 7 May, 2020 at 5:03 am

Hola! Selecciono idioma Español pero no se cambia!

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barbanne04@outlook.com · 4 May, 2020 at 7:17 am

When I react in this “not the best of me” way, I think I am forgetting about God & so letting God down, by not calling on him to guide my response. I feel a failure, disappointed & disgusted with myself, yet feel righteously indignant.

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barbanne04@outlook.com · 4 May, 2020 at 7:12 am

I saw this in my family of origin. I think this is where i have learnt to react defensively,
when I feel misunderstood & judged unfairly.

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barbanne04@outlook.com · 4 May, 2020 at 6:53 am

I’m finding it hard to choose a situation.

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pastorortizdelencino@gmail.com · 8 April, 2020 at 5:03 pm

I can think about a few people that right now are doing that. They are mostly teenagers. I am probably scary to them, as I was for my children when they were little. I feel very sorry for that.

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pastorortizdelencino@gmail.com · 8 April, 2020 at 4:45 pm

First of all, what a great explanation of how the brain works.
Second, yes I do, but I am having some difficulty to identify my own Cognitive Bias. I know they're there because I haven't been able to lose weight and exercise to be fit and healthy. I feel tired all the time both, physically and emotionally. I think that the emotional brain has affected my body by creating biases. It's probably guilt for not being able to spend more time with my two sons as they were growing up, but I am not sure.
I would have to get more education to find out exactly what those biases look like.

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melanie@relationship.capital · 17 March, 2020 at 4:45 am

test

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 6 March, 2020 at 9:36 am

Hi Melanie I wanted to do this practice question (Selflog 1) but couldn’t print out more than the General Information. I couldn’t print out the Warm up or Serious phases to follow so I was a bit confused about what I had to do? I assume you can just do this with a family member and then do role playing someone with a problem?

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rosinamenafra@hotmail.com · 16 February, 2020 at 2:22 am

Todos los videos estan ingles?

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 13 February, 2020 at 11:46 am

That’s great

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 13 February, 2020 at 11:44 am

That’s a good statement

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 13 February, 2020 at 11:37 am

I have now printed out the templates

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:47 am

I feel a bit concerned that in the Not the Best of Me I have focused on things that were done to me and not things I was doing.
As there were two identical situations where groups of people I had got on very well with were damaged by a very bullying person I truly didn’t think it was me that was causing this toxic situation. I guess if I did want to choose something else that was Not the Best of me i could choose the fact that in the past I have been described as controlling and aloof and have certainly worked on those two things

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:42 am

This module has not given the chance to say I only want to share with P o L staff

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:39 am

I was spending much too much time in the Fragmentary role as I did not want to leave a group of people I really liked but after years of frustration and distress I realised this situation was not going to change so I now spend about 95% away from those situations and 5% on trying to remediate when I feel it is necessary, without allowing myself to get distressed by it.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:36 am

I felt this situation drained the Life Force away from a group of people, there was no Godliness there,

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:35 am

I had this feeling when I was at boarding school and had good friends and also when I was at Women’s College (where I was in my third year elected President) .It is very satisfying to be part of a group.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:33 am

This figure feels included, happy, content, contributing, creating community, healthy, inspired

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:32 am

I don’t think I ever saw this role system before I met this person.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:31 am

As I can’t write into those spaces I have to do it here. Feeling was very strong – upset, alienated, angry, feeling of unjustness,
starts to affect ones body so that I and others become ill.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:28 am

Unfortunately I have been in situations in my life where someone has caused others to turn on me so I have learnt what
bullying is, how a whole group can become ill and stressed, how people can become divided, how difficult it is to talk about it and how damaging it becomes.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:27 am

I felt included, happy, fulfilled, involved in a group, unstressed, contributing

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:25 am

In the NOT the Best of You if people turned away from me I felt rejected, upset as I felt it was for the wrong reasons, alienated,
angry at things being said about me that were untrue and disappointed that people would behave like that

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 24 January, 2020 at 9:23 am

I thought as those large spaces were there that I should be able to write into them with my answers but, try as I might, I was unable to. How should I reply to this??

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 20 January, 2020 at 7:06 am

I think this is exactly how Donald Trump treats refugees – lumping them all into one basket as an IT no
matter what skills they have or contributions they could make.

And we can see many examples such as Jews and Palestinians. I saw a film once where two babies had been accidentally swapped at birth – one was Jewish, the other Palestinian – the two families had grown up bringing up one of their enemy and of course had loved them.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 19 January, 2020 at 9:46 am

I think Lisa is now trying but hasn’t quite got there as the rest of the group are holding hands – showing strong bonding but she and Joanne are still not involved in that. She needs to bond both of them with the group as well. Also she is the only one holding the project and until they can all hold it because they all have a role in it I still don’t think she has quite reached the ideal situation.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 19 January, 2020 at 9:44 am

This is a very different scenario. Lisa is now trying to communicate with the team, telling them about the project and bringing Joanne "the gem" in at the same level as the others. She is, however, still the only one holding the project so perhaps she has not yet communicated to each one what their individual role is. As far as I can tell, the team – apart from Joanne and Lisa- are all holding hands, showing team bonding and Lisa needs to involve both herself and Joanne into that to create a truly cohesive and involved working group.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 19 January, 2020 at 9:39 am

(I wrote this and it then disappeared) Looking at this tableau it is apparent that Lisa is not communicating with nor involving her team. The team are all supportive of each other and reaching out to her but she can't see that. She also is the only one holding the project so she may indeed be a very controlling person who is poor at trusting, communicating with and involving other. Even Joanne, whom she thought was the "gem" is not allowed to share in holding the project. Lisa may play favourites, split her team, create distrust and not communicate her needs well.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 19 January, 2020 at 9:29 am

Lisa is very concerned because they are working on a $20M project which is behind schedule and is over budget. She is also very worried because there is low team engagement and many leaving. Even though she has tried to talk to her boss about it she doesn't feel she's getting any support so feels very isolated. She feels this can't go on. She is distressed that the team are uncooperative and unsupportive and uncaring – except for one person, Joanne whom she thinks is a treasure.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 18 January, 2020 at 9:52 am

I had an interesting experience when I decided to have an exhibition of paintings based on the Foreshore Walk in Glebe. It is a walk I do most days for exercise. When I realised I had to find subjects for paintings I looked at things far more carefully and found to my amazement that I saw things I had never noticed before, even though I had been doing this walk for years. Oysters on the rocks, patterns of shadows on the pavement, a set of steps, views across the water – it greatly enhanced my experience of that walk.

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 29 December, 2019 at 9:35 am

Am I doing this on my own as I was hopeful this was going to be a dialogue with the two members of my family who would be doing it too? Do I keep going or do I wait for them?

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    melanie@relationship.capital · 13 January, 2020 at 11:23 pm

    Hi Christie,
    You can do this together side by side or individually and share your notes to each other. We recommend people to get together and review the theory and practice the techniques together.
    Regards
    Melanie

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      chrisstewart501@me.com · 18 January, 2020 at 9:27 am

      OK Maybe now I have finished the Starter course we can do that with the next Modules.

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ronpiercelyons@yahoo.com · 25 December, 2019 at 7:46 am

video does not play??? or veeeerrry veerryyy sloooowwwwllllyyyy

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    melanie@relationship.capital · 13 January, 2020 at 10:45 pm

    Hi Ron, sorry about the slow video, sometimes if the video is large it can take longer to show due to the internet speed but I will have our tech team look into it. Thank you very much for bringing it to my attention.
    Melanie (Associate Director Play of Life)

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    rosinamenafra@hotmail.com · 16 February, 2020 at 2:16 am

    A mi me sucede lo mismo !!! Muy lento

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 15 December, 2019 at 7:10 am

I feel these three people all regard themselves as victims. They don't see that they have choices in the situation.
The first person is angry because he feels he is underpaid. What is he doing about it? Has he asked for a raise? Has he looked
for another job? Has he decided to accept the situation if he isn't going to do anything about it?

The second person feels he can justify a dishonest action because the hotel he chose himself to stay in he now regards as
too expensive. Why is he staying there? Did he have another choice?

The third person is blaming circumstances for his situation. These people all regard themselves as victims and blame others for where they are not seeing that they have choices.

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    melanie@relationship.capital · 13 January, 2020 at 10:48 pm

    Hi Christie, I’ve read your comment, thank you for your great insights!

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 12 December, 2019 at 11:01 am

I am wondering if there is something wrong as I seem to be going round in circles

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 12 December, 2019 at 10:59 am

I have filled this in already

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chrisstewart501@me.com · 12 December, 2019 at 10:57 am

Just wondering if I should wait for my daughter and husband to join

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fldickie@gmail.com · 9 September, 2019 at 7:45 am

I am going to be a pilgrim on this course and challenge my prejudices.

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tonycarter@tallowillow.com.au · 20 August, 2019 at 2:06 am

Unfortunately, not all evolution is good. There are a great many social experiments occurring (as opposed to being conducted) these days which are motivated by rather selfish agendas.
Of course, this statement could demonstrate prejudice, but there is a need for discernment if we seek growth rather than fragmentation, joy rather than happiness. Critical ingredients of discernment are love and self knowledge.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 17 April, 2019 at 4:34 am

With the play of life, it is a real world in which you as a person you don’t need to search for an answer, but you get answer by practising the play of life and this flows without even thinking about it.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 8 April, 2019 at 6:58 am

When I feel tired and angry this cause a headache, it even causes me to sleep.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 8 April, 2019 at 6:53 am

Yes, there was a time I was feeling down and depressed, I was feeling Isolated and I could not speak to anyone. I was thinking that no one could feel or understand the way I was feeling. For sure It doesn't help when you think that way, the more you keep it to yourself the more you continue to suffer from it. Then I went to play soccer with the community friends which always happen every Saturday. When I got there I met one man with his son coming to play too. I said to the man: I am not happy , I am really down and the doctor told me that I am depressed. The man told me This: don't worry mate I went through this for long time but since I started coming here to play soccer, everything started improving, now I am happy with my family. For you to, just do what you enjoy doing and enjoy yourself, you will be good and everything will work well again with you.

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dwkfish2@gmail.com · 17 February, 2019 at 4:17 am

The power Of community support of an individual in crisis like the homeless and being involved with Bayside Church to make a difference however small.

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dwkfish2@gmail.com · 17 February, 2019 at 4:13 am

Judgemental of strangers and biased to my own set of beliefs

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dwkfish2@gmail.com · 17 February, 2019 at 4:11 am

At 6am in the morning when meditating about my life and family

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 14 January, 2019 at 4:42 am

My children were in the house in the morning getting ready to play, in a while I felt overwhelmed by their games after telling them to stop for couple of minutes. A friend who they call Grand- mother came to visit and took them to the swimming pool for a swim. This brought to my wife and then we stayed home enjoying our peaceful time. when the children returned home from swimming everyone was happy as we were all refreshed and having a good thinking as we had a happy time of not being together for a while.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 14 January, 2019 at 4:16 am

At Christmas time, I had so many people in my house than expected and I felt overwhelmed, then I contained myself by having a walk with my dog and my dog was overwhelmed too. She was not used to so many people and non stop talking.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 14 January, 2019 at 4:06 am

I went to my bedroom last night, big spider rolling at the window, then I was shocked and jumped away automatically.
As soon as it happened I was not frightened anymore. I went to the kitchen, I grabbed Insect spray and I sprayed the spider and it died. This made me feel safe and I felt relieved after seeing it dead.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 14 January, 2019 at 3:43 am

The mind operates in the brain and this creates different reactions and different actions in people. Through our actions we can determined who we are and how our brain works.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 4 January, 2019 at 2:27 am

Supportive sharer.
Encouraging modeler
Happy Helper
Joyful speaker

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 4 January, 2019 at 2:12 am

Fear is fundamental to this. For example, I may not know the way to get somewhere, then I will start struggling in my thinking. Instead of asking any person I see around me, that person may be from there or knows the way better than I do. How will I get help if I don’t ask? In my thought I will be like: I don’t want to disurb anybody, fear comes, stress comes and other negative thoughts. finally I will end up to be discribed as a Frightened withdrawer. This is a fragmenting role.
Here is the Constructive role: For example, if I approach a person and ask him if he could know the way to get me to the post office. The person may say no, but, he may lead me to the right person who is familiar with that place.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 4 January, 2019 at 1:53 am

When someone succeeds in his carrier or studies and that person was supported by you, he becomes useful to the community and other people succeed through him. All these come to you as tips as people say: he is successful because of his great person who leads him in the right way, now we are successful because he succeeded. When this comes back to you as praise for what you did to support first that person it definitely reduces anxiety.

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lindsay@playoflife.com · 12 December, 2018 at 2:41 pm

Lisa has changed her focus and the work is the responsibility of the entire team.

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lindsay@playoflife.com · 12 December, 2018 at 1:50 pm

Lisa has not represented issues like being behind schedule and over budget. Her team is supportive and she is not alone and her sole focus on the work prevents her from seeing this. She is not engaged with her team or Joanne.

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lindsay@playoflife.com · 10 December, 2018 at 5:32 am

Her concerns – the project is behind schedule, the project is over budget, low team engagement, high level of employee turnover, repeated complaints to boss leave her feeling isolated, an uncooperative team, no support from Management and no one at work cares.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 6 December, 2018 at 5:16 am

It is true, we all go through this in one way or another but some people go deeper than others. People have so many reasons to justify their wrong doing. Others trying to comfort themselves, justifying their behaviours. This is when the play of life can help to discover the gaps and helps you to come up with a better idea of handling this which will lead you to change.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 6 December, 2018 at 4:43 am

The Emotional engagement is vital in the client relationship because it helps the client to feel contained that is when they feel safe. This brings the person to open up to bring all his attitudes and character to the safe environment which is for him a safe place for change.
When people express themselves this helps them to know who they are and reach to a point of better connection.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 6 December, 2018 at 4:13 am

Engagement is very important, because this connect people together and helps to know each other more.
Engagement brings connections, collaboration and cooperation. This brings values and appreciation.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 6 December, 2018 at 3:48 am

Dr. Carlos explained clearly about the meaning of feeling contained. that it's to be protected.
This touched my heart as a young parent; Our children feel protected because they have someone to run to when the danger comes. As well us parents we understand what our parents were feeling when we were little, the responsability they had looking after us.
Protection takes away fear, protection builds personality, it gives peace of mind and builds more confidence.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 29 November, 2018 at 4:55 am

I have learned through this technique of play of life. This technique has brought a big change in me and I feel healed.
This change which this made in me has uplifted my self-esteem to be able to help others. This technique is very constructive as it doesn't need much explanation but much action: looking, seeing, touching and moving. This create a transformation in my thinking and brings up the person I am which is the inner me.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 29 November, 2018 at 4:42 am

I really found that the Fragmented role in the play of life should not last for long, because this may cause harm to your personality, such as: mistrust, Isolation, withdrawal and lead you to an unhappy mood.

The Constructive role is the one which leads to success as people see you as a leader, a role model, and a trustworthy person because when people are together, they feel the sense of belonging, feel loved and united and valued. Being together. I feel connected as well as loved which brings positive image about myself and other people I'm with. This grows my personality.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 22 November, 2018 at 4:15 am

This means that we need each other in life, by yourself you are not enough. You need to be completed by relating to others, of cause in positive way.
I am I because YOU are there which means, You see your value once you are valued by others.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 22 November, 2018 at 3:57 am

This shows how we judge ourselves. but the main thing is to know that we value ourselves by intension and we value others by their actions. The point here is about how other people judge us. Don’t forget that people judge us by our action as we do to them as well. They see the visual part of us which is our actions.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 22 November, 2018 at 3:34 am

The first one shows how people respond to verbal interpretation from our own thinking.
The second one is the feed back of what we see happening in front of us, visible to us which is the power of the technique.

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danamaani.j@gmail.com · 31 October, 2018 at 4:36 pm

My little brother was passing through a hard time and i couldnt contain it because i am short tempered when it comes to him

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danamaani.j@gmail.com · 31 October, 2018 at 4:23 pm

Caring listener, Positive motivator, Loving helper

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danamaani.j@gmail.com · 27 October, 2018 at 12:00 pm

She doesn't have the management's support.
unable to manage the team
the team has high turnover
she feels she is alone
she feels the management doesn't care

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danamaani.j@gmail.com · 14 October, 2018 at 5:09 pm

I celebrate achieving my daily goals, I celebrate being Healthy, I celebrate when i can give something to the society even if’s a small hope, a reason to smile, or a simple kind word/Act.
I feel the need to help others. The need to try to make their lives better even for a little bit or a short time. I feel the need to give positive thoughts for those who need it. The need to make a change in the world, And if i cant change it with my hand, I change it with my tongue, and if i can’t with my tongue, I change it with my heart. PRAY.
I participate by improving myself and my soft skills to be able to make things easier and smoother for others.

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Nyombe Nyambura · 29 August, 2018 at 7:58 am

Verbal communication with the limitation it articulate the range of strategies that the tow parties agree and used it promptly , this always base on the dynamic of what types of communication

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melanie@playoflife.com · 29 August, 2018 at 7:57 am

I hope to be a pilgrim throughout this course

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 27 August, 2018 at 7:11 am

Lisa has changed she is bringing healing to the group and reunite with them again.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 27 August, 2018 at 7:09 am

Lisa’s process in the play of life as she demonstrated to the group is goo because this play of life is working in Lisa’s life too.
Lisa joined the team and she is sharing the work with the team.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 27 August, 2018 at 7:02 am

Lisa excluded herself from the team. Joanne is trying to speak on behalf of Lisa and this could encourage Lisa as well as bringing happiness to her that she has a support but she is not even motivating the speaker. Lisa thinks she is right but the play of life shows that she is wrong and she has to see herself in the play of life, why is she excluding herself from the team.
It the same in life people think always that they are right and they have problems but they forget that they may be the problem. until they reflect and work deeper in it then change. That is why play of life is important as it helps you to balance yourself and take a step of healing.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 27 August, 2018 at 6:48 am

She is frustrated, not listened to, the team is uncooperative, management not listening and no body cares except Joanne and finally she feels Isolated.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 27 August, 2018 at 6:43 am

Here in play of life the action speaks more than the word and this brings a quick healing because the progress of the action brings positive healing, it may be painful but it works.
The verbal communication without action can lead to harm and there may be no quick solution as expected.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 27 July, 2018 at 6:26 am

Identity and communication are very important thins to have in life.
Many people don’t appreciate who they are and what potential they have, until it is discovered by others,. Some times not knowing who you are can bring confusion and stress. But when you discover who you are, you feel motivated and affirmed as you feel that you can do something positive in life.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 23 July, 2018 at 1:32 am

I celebrate a new born baby who just arrived in my family recently.
I usually like to talk to people and hear their thinking, thoughts and achievements, then I pick any positive side as a motivation for uplifting their self esteem. I know many people face difficulties because they need attention sometimes, they need someone to listen to them. When you are a good listener you will celebrate all the time with other people's success.
Many people come to me feeling really down and when I speak to them about how important they are, I see them rising again and getting stronger and stronger, this brings more celebration because I have helped someone to discover his positivity. In the society today when people have been doing good and when one mistake happen to their lives, it takes away their joy straight away, that is why people need one another for sharing.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 18 July, 2018 at 2:37 am

Yes indeed. There is evolution every day and everyone want to be a head in everything. some people take risks in life to show that they were part of the bigger things that have happened.
In all these. it is much better to be moderate, have your joy and happiness in every step of life as you move a head which get to a good ending as you feel happy with your achievement.

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innocentbaleke@yahoo.fr · 18 July, 2018 at 2:27 am

The big barrier is about judging a client before helping him. It is better to explore the person and know who he is before jumping to a conclusion. He may be more than what you think.

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Penny Vine · 29 June, 2018 at 9:06 am

Lisa is sharing the workload with the other people on her team and there is a closer grouping of everyone.

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Penny Vine · 29 June, 2018 at 9:04 am

Lisa's expereince was different from that observed by others . The support was there but she was preoccupied with the task and ignoring the people

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Colina · 29 June, 2018 at 4:57 am

Thanks, I found this very helpful since the first step is easy and I have already taken it.

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Nyombe Nyambura · 17 June, 2018 at 10:22 am

I am enjoying the course its too much to ready but taking me gratefully.
Happy ready!1

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